I want to share a story with you guys. For those of you who joined us at New Years remember Mark's advice about the guys not living outside the wall. Well Sunday I lost my keys at church. Not a big deal. I got a ride home with a friend. I could not find the spare key to my van, which was at the church. The other keys I can replace, a pain, but it can be done. We happen to have two vehicles, so no problem I'll go to the local dealer on Monday and get a van key. So I go out to get in the truck and the battery is dead. So now I have two vehicles and can't use either one. While I am coming up with a game plan, Mike calls. All I could think about was don't worry him. After he hung up. I got a friends husband over and we replaced the battery. I went Monday and started replacing keys and got my van home. Mike calls monday, about how wierd the phone call was on sunday, what is wrong, he is worried sick. So I told him and he said he would have rather known what my problem was, he could have talked me through it. But, because I did not tell him, he sensed something was wrong and worried all night. So from now on and maybe it's because his time is "short" I will keep him in the loop. Once you guys get to know us, we are very intuned to each other, And usually when something happens he will call me. It is the wierdest thing, in three marriages I have never had a relationship like I do with him.
So tonight I get a call from him, he asked me if I had read the classifieds in our local paper on Tuesday. I said no, I don't read the classifieds, and he knows this. Well there is an add for lost keys that were found and he called to give me the number. I was just amazed that with all he is dealing with in there, that my lost keys where important to him. I love and miss him so much.
4 comments:
You are so lucky to have each other. What a beautiful story and what a beautiful couple you make.
AWWW, that is so sweet...It is very weird how they can sense things but Chance is the same way...Our apartment burnt down a week after he was arrested, he called that night and he knew something was wrong... a month later, I hit a deer and totaled my car, he called me 6am as soon as they let him out of his cell, he knew something was wrong again.
This story brought tears to my eyes. Thank you for sharing it!
I was talking with Greg's mother the other night not telling Greg things that he has no control over and to not make him upset by the outside things. Even though Greg and I have a shorter history than most you of you all here, we have a connection that I have never had with anyone in my life! So, when he calls and there is something bothering me,,,he knows. He has also been known to call me out the blue just because, but that is when i needed to hear his voice the most.
So, while I agree that I need to filter what I tell him, I also feel that I shouldn't keep everything from him..
You know, when Steve went in he made me promise not to keep anything from him. He said he would worry more thinking I wouldn't tell him everything. When Mark said not to tell them stuff they couldn't help with inside, I was so confused, that I told Steve what he said. His comment was, that's not me and you. We have always been completely honest with each other, and we always share all our fears and feelings about everything. Now, I don't mean I am going to burden him with silly things, but the real life situations I will always tell him and ask his advice. He said this makes him fell still a part of it all. Just my thoughts, Becky
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